Arguments have a way of always leading up to bad consequences. The reason why people shout when they are arguing is because, even though they are in the same room, but their hearts are miles apart.. They feel like the other person can’t hear to them, can’t understand them.
But what we don’t realize is, arguments are due to disagreeing on a certain issue.It doesn’t mean you let this issue affect you for the rest of your life. It doesn’t mean you put your life on hold. It definitely doesn’t mean you say things about the person which you know are not true. You know that person’s flaws because they opened up to you in a moment of weakness. They trusted you enough to reveal the darkest parts of them. These parts are what prevented them from feeling like a good person for a long time till they met you. But everyone has them. Its not something you can use against them in a moment when you don’t know whats going to happen. Its not right.
More than arguing, sitting down and having a relaxed and sorted conversation leads to more solutions. It gives you the chance to put forth your thoughts, so that the other can understand, in a stable state of mind why you think so. It gives you the opportunities to see if your ideology has loopholes as well.
But we are humans. We tend to slip, without even realizing it and that’s okay. But we have the power over the matter of where it goes from after the fight is over. Whether we make up or let our ego get in the way is our choice..
The most wasted of all days is one without laughter. So never go to bed with aggressive thoughts in your head. Our life is too short to waste even a moment.